Flikkametsä

A sex party for women, people with vulvas and feminine gender minorities

Have you always dreamt of soft and sensual touch? Do your panties get wet from touching boobs? Are you turned on by the idea of submitting to a Domme? In our sex party you will have a great chance to explore all of this and more in a safer and more inclusive environment.

Examples of who are welcome to our sex party: cis women, femmes, butches, Dommes, people with vulvas, sub women, trans women, and feminine non-binary and intersex people. You can be experienced or a newbie; a lesbian, bi-curious, pansexual or anything in between. We want to create a space for you to explore and play without the presence of men. Our party is kink-friendly.

Included in the ticket price are vegan snacks and beverages. The event is alcohol and drug-free.

How to join

We only sell tickets and inform about our events to people on our mailing list. You have to apply to get in. This is in order to have a safer experience for everyone.

At the moment we don't accept new applications, but we hope to be able to get new people in at early 2024.

Unfortunately our mailing list at the moment is only in Finnish. We just don't have the resources at the moment to translate everything into another language. If you, however, have someone who can translate the emails to you, a partner for example, you are welcome to join our events. The program in the events are in Finnish, but our staff members are happy to help you in English if you need translation, or of course you can attend the party with a Finnish friend who can help you.

Party Etiquette

Consent

We always ask permission for any action or touch from all participants. Only a clear ”yes!” means yes. Saying no doesn’t need an explanation, and you can leave at any time from a situation that doesn’t feel comfortable. Participation to the program and any activities is always voluntary. It’s good to listen to your own boundaries and actively negotiate them.

Safety

This is a safer space. We do not accept any discriminatory behaviour based on sex, gender, orientation, identity, origin, nationality or appearance. We will treat everyone equally and kindly. We will not use alcohol or drugs. Everyone is responsible for themselves and their own well-being, but you should tell the staff immediately if you experience or notice discrimination.

Respect

We respect the space and boundaries of others. It’s important not to assume other people’s identities. Asking is the only way to know about the gender, preferences and boundaries of others. We do not judge but instead we meet others with an open mind.

Trust

We can share our own experiences from this event afterwards but we do not tell who else was in this event, what they said, did or with whom. Photographing and other recording is absolutely forbidden and it’s best to avoid using our cell phones in the event space.

A person who does not follow our rules can be removed from the event.